I started writing this post well over a month ago. Little bits at a time so that I do not become too emotional.
If you lived under a rock, or don't care about the South East half of the country, you may have missed one of the worst tornado outbreak in history. April 27, 2011 358 tornadoes broke out, taking with them 349 people and my heart.
I have mentioned in posts before about how I am a big scardy cat baby when I even hear the threat of bad weather. By bad weather, I am talking tornado, or sever thunderstorm that could be damaging wind weather. When the sky turns a funky color, my heart starts racing and I can't focus on anything but weather updates. I have been like this all my life. Perhaps to prepare me for April 27, 2011.
The day started out on a dark note for me. I woke up knowing something was going to happen, I just didn't know to whom and to what extent. I woke up, and did my usual routine. Chris and I both worked in downtown Birmingham at the time, across the street from each other. We commuted together every day, and this day was no different. As I sat at work, I was constantly checking the weather. You see, when we left in the morning, it was bright, warm and sunny. A disaster for unstable weather if you are expecting storms that day. There was talk about possibly shutting down early if things were to get bad, but we were playing it by ear. Cahaba Heights and other areas were hit very early that morning with the first round of storms that came through. Nothing too horrific, but some major damage. There was a lot of wind damage through the state actually. I remember my dad calling me to tell me he had some trees down at his house. Little did he know that these trees were the least of his problems.
Shit started to get real when we were watching the tornado coverage in Mississippi. Then it started tracking into Alabama. I remember sitting in our office watching the tornado come right through Tuscaloosa. This is only about 45 minutes away from us. It was unreal. Chris and I made the decision to get on home, and left work. I remember driving up I-59, and Chris was checking the weather on his phone. The weather channel was showing that it wasn't even really going to rain much more. It didn't seem serious now. We decided to go to Starbucks, and we sat outside on the patio. The wind started to pick up some, and Chris deiced that maybe he wanted to pick up some cigars for himself to enjoy in our sun room at home.
We headed to go get those, but most of the tobacco stores were closed, so we decided to just head home. It started to get pretty nasty pretty quickly on our way back to our house. It started raining, and the sky started turning those funky colors before a nasty storm comes. I started to cook dinner, it was pork chops and roasted potatoes. The meal was about 15 minutes away from being done, and Chris and I were watching the weather on TV. It looked like a long tracking tornado was making it's way right for us. We quickly made the decision to turn off the oven, pack up our dogs and head to his parents house where there is a basement.
At the time, our rental house was about 10 minutes from his parents house. We got in my car, and I sat in back with the dogs as Chris drove our way through the pouring down rain, very heavy rain and debris filled the streets to his parents. The debris at the time was from tree limbs and other such nature that was falling due to the winds.
We got to the house and got the dogs inside. We ran upstairs and they were telling everyone to take cover, that the storm was right over us. We all ran downstairs to the basement and took cover by the back wall near the dogs. Chris and his dad went upstairs for a minute, and they heard/saw rotation in the sky and came running back down.
Luckily for us, the storm happened to not make land fall and skip over our area, and land in St. Clair County.
As soon as the storm passed through, it started to calm down and Chris and I headed back to our house. I texted my dad, sister and mom and let them know that we were OK. I told my dad and my sister that it was coming for them.
My sister was at home by herself with 2 of my nephews. Her husband was at work, and her in-laws were across the street. Her mother-in-law called her to come on over, as she usually does in bad weather. For whatever reason, my sister felt she should stay at her house.
She took my nephews and some pillows and blankets and hunkered down in her hallway that led back to the bedrooms.
Minutes after Chris and I got home my mom called my cell phone, she was hysterical. She was crying and screaming and I couldn't hardly understand her. Then I realized what she was saying. The tornado landed in Shoal Creek, my sister lost her house and is outside looking for her in laws. She called my mom screaming and crying after it went through, and they lost connection. My mom was unable to get a hold of her again and didn't know what to do. She knew she couldn't leave to come up there because there were hundreds of trees down blocking the roads.
I called my dad. He didn't answer at first, then called me right back. He too lost his house. He, his wife, and a few other guys from the fire department were out helping people when they saw the storm coming and took shelter in a pantry that was built in under the stairs in his house. There was more of his house standing than my sisters, but it was a total loss. He told me that he was going to start cutting trees up and try to get to my sister. She needed help because she was trying to find her father in law and mother in law.
My dad never made it to my sister that night. They live about 2 miles from each other and there were just too many trees down, and too many people around his house that needed help. What was left of his house became a triage for the rest of the area. As he went to the area he could get to, he was pulling people out and sending them to his wife for her to help them in any way she could.
My sister eventually found her in-laws. They were thrown a good bit away from their house, landed next to each other in the yard. My sister's father in law was not alive, and her mother in law was barely breathing and injured. My sister was also part of the fire department, and called for medical help. They landed a helicopter to take her mother in law to the hospital.
Unfortunately, her mother in law did not make it. She passed a few days later, never to come conscience. There was a joint funeral for them. The funeral home was in Pell City, and the burial was in Shoal Creek Valley at their church's graveyard. I have never been to a funeral were there were so many people. Chris and I had to stand in the back because they ran out of seating. I never made it up to the front to view or see my sister or any of her family because the line was so long that they had to cut it off and start the service. When it was over, I ran to the back to hug my sister. I can't imagine going through something like that. She had just turned 23 a month before all this happened.
The processional line to drive to the grave side service was just as long as the line in the funeral home. It was so long, and there were so many cars that the back half the line missed part of the grave side service. It was the most amazing thing I have ever seen though. The National Guard and about 300 volunteers were meeting at a gas station on the corner of a road we had to cross to get to the grave side. All of the National Guard stood still, with their hats over their hearts...and all the volunteers lined up around the corner as well as our line of cars made its way through the rubble that was left of the area. I felt like it was a scene out of the movies or something. I cried, silently, the rest of the way to the grave side.
Net and Charlie were amazing people. They are missed greatly. They took my nephew Christopher in as their own. They were amazing parents and grandparents and we were lucky to know them for as long as we did.
Below is a picture of the tornado that decided to skip out on the Trussville/Clay area and land back in Shoal Creek Valley, in Ashville, Alabama. It was decided that it was an EF5.
In this video link below, around 2:52 in, they show my sister's house. It was brick on the front, you can't really tell. See the purple wall on the right side? That was my niece's bedroom...there were other bedrooms there too but they are gone. A tree branch was stuck in the engine of my sisters Ford Expedition. Right through the motor, it was considered totaled as well.
If you lived under a rock, or don't care about the South East half of the country, you may have missed one of the worst tornado outbreak in history. April 27, 2011 358 tornadoes broke out, taking with them 349 people and my heart.
I have mentioned in posts before about how I am a big scardy cat baby when I even hear the threat of bad weather. By bad weather, I am talking tornado, or sever thunderstorm that could be damaging wind weather. When the sky turns a funky color, my heart starts racing and I can't focus on anything but weather updates. I have been like this all my life. Perhaps to prepare me for April 27, 2011.
The day started out on a dark note for me. I woke up knowing something was going to happen, I just didn't know to whom and to what extent. I woke up, and did my usual routine. Chris and I both worked in downtown Birmingham at the time, across the street from each other. We commuted together every day, and this day was no different. As I sat at work, I was constantly checking the weather. You see, when we left in the morning, it was bright, warm and sunny. A disaster for unstable weather if you are expecting storms that day. There was talk about possibly shutting down early if things were to get bad, but we were playing it by ear. Cahaba Heights and other areas were hit very early that morning with the first round of storms that came through. Nothing too horrific, but some major damage. There was a lot of wind damage through the state actually. I remember my dad calling me to tell me he had some trees down at his house. Little did he know that these trees were the least of his problems.
Shit started to get real when we were watching the tornado coverage in Mississippi. Then it started tracking into Alabama. I remember sitting in our office watching the tornado come right through Tuscaloosa. This is only about 45 minutes away from us. It was unreal. Chris and I made the decision to get on home, and left work. I remember driving up I-59, and Chris was checking the weather on his phone. The weather channel was showing that it wasn't even really going to rain much more. It didn't seem serious now. We decided to go to Starbucks, and we sat outside on the patio. The wind started to pick up some, and Chris deiced that maybe he wanted to pick up some cigars for himself to enjoy in our sun room at home.
We headed to go get those, but most of the tobacco stores were closed, so we decided to just head home. It started to get pretty nasty pretty quickly on our way back to our house. It started raining, and the sky started turning those funky colors before a nasty storm comes. I started to cook dinner, it was pork chops and roasted potatoes. The meal was about 15 minutes away from being done, and Chris and I were watching the weather on TV. It looked like a long tracking tornado was making it's way right for us. We quickly made the decision to turn off the oven, pack up our dogs and head to his parents house where there is a basement.
At the time, our rental house was about 10 minutes from his parents house. We got in my car, and I sat in back with the dogs as Chris drove our way through the pouring down rain, very heavy rain and debris filled the streets to his parents. The debris at the time was from tree limbs and other such nature that was falling due to the winds.
We got to the house and got the dogs inside. We ran upstairs and they were telling everyone to take cover, that the storm was right over us. We all ran downstairs to the basement and took cover by the back wall near the dogs. Chris and his dad went upstairs for a minute, and they heard/saw rotation in the sky and came running back down.
Luckily for us, the storm happened to not make land fall and skip over our area, and land in St. Clair County.
As soon as the storm passed through, it started to calm down and Chris and I headed back to our house. I texted my dad, sister and mom and let them know that we were OK. I told my dad and my sister that it was coming for them.
My sister was at home by herself with 2 of my nephews. Her husband was at work, and her in-laws were across the street. Her mother-in-law called her to come on over, as she usually does in bad weather. For whatever reason, my sister felt she should stay at her house.
She took my nephews and some pillows and blankets and hunkered down in her hallway that led back to the bedrooms.
Minutes after Chris and I got home my mom called my cell phone, she was hysterical. She was crying and screaming and I couldn't hardly understand her. Then I realized what she was saying. The tornado landed in Shoal Creek, my sister lost her house and is outside looking for her in laws. She called my mom screaming and crying after it went through, and they lost connection. My mom was unable to get a hold of her again and didn't know what to do. She knew she couldn't leave to come up there because there were hundreds of trees down blocking the roads.
I called my dad. He didn't answer at first, then called me right back. He too lost his house. He, his wife, and a few other guys from the fire department were out helping people when they saw the storm coming and took shelter in a pantry that was built in under the stairs in his house. There was more of his house standing than my sisters, but it was a total loss. He told me that he was going to start cutting trees up and try to get to my sister. She needed help because she was trying to find her father in law and mother in law.
My dad never made it to my sister that night. They live about 2 miles from each other and there were just too many trees down, and too many people around his house that needed help. What was left of his house became a triage for the rest of the area. As he went to the area he could get to, he was pulling people out and sending them to his wife for her to help them in any way she could.
My sister eventually found her in-laws. They were thrown a good bit away from their house, landed next to each other in the yard. My sister's father in law was not alive, and her mother in law was barely breathing and injured. My sister was also part of the fire department, and called for medical help. They landed a helicopter to take her mother in law to the hospital.
Unfortunately, her mother in law did not make it. She passed a few days later, never to come conscience. There was a joint funeral for them. The funeral home was in Pell City, and the burial was in Shoal Creek Valley at their church's graveyard. I have never been to a funeral were there were so many people. Chris and I had to stand in the back because they ran out of seating. I never made it up to the front to view or see my sister or any of her family because the line was so long that they had to cut it off and start the service. When it was over, I ran to the back to hug my sister. I can't imagine going through something like that. She had just turned 23 a month before all this happened.
The processional line to drive to the grave side service was just as long as the line in the funeral home. It was so long, and there were so many cars that the back half the line missed part of the grave side service. It was the most amazing thing I have ever seen though. The National Guard and about 300 volunteers were meeting at a gas station on the corner of a road we had to cross to get to the grave side. All of the National Guard stood still, with their hats over their hearts...and all the volunteers lined up around the corner as well as our line of cars made its way through the rubble that was left of the area. I felt like it was a scene out of the movies or something. I cried, silently, the rest of the way to the grave side.
Net and Charlie were amazing people. They are missed greatly. They took my nephew Christopher in as their own. They were amazing parents and grandparents and we were lucky to know them for as long as we did.
Below is a picture of the tornado that decided to skip out on the Trussville/Clay area and land back in Shoal Creek Valley, in Ashville, Alabama. It was decided that it was an EF5.
In this video link below, around 2:52 in, they show my sister's house. It was brick on the front, you can't really tell. See the purple wall on the right side? That was my niece's bedroom...there were other bedrooms there too but they are gone. A tree branch was stuck in the engine of my sisters Ford Expedition. Right through the motor, it was considered totaled as well.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBJEHjQVOO0&feature=share
After the funeral, I took my nephews home with me. My mother in law and sister in law cooked a dinner for my sister and her family, and took it to them. I was so thankful they wanted to help as well. I know it meant a lot to everyone.
I took my nephews back to my house. On the way home, my tire blew. Go figure. I had picked up some nails from all the debris that we had driven through. There was a nice couple that was coming back from another funeral, and they stopped and helped us.
Christopher was exhausted. He told me that he hadn't been sleeping good because every time he closed his eyes, he could hear his mom screaming and the storm coming over their house. He was 6 at the time, Cooper was 1.
This is my dad's house before they started rebuilding. He wanted to keep the fire place/chimney because it was still intact.
It has been a long road of recovery for everyone in Alabama since April 27, 2011. The weatherman are careful when they use terms to warn us of bad weather. Every week since then, the weather and news crews are in a different city around here programming weather radios for people.
This is James Spann. He is the best weatherman on the entire planet. Everyone in Alabama knows that if this man is on TV, has his suspenders on and his sleeves rolled up wheeling out his Mac Book, that shit is about to get real! He had been warning us for days before April 27 that is was going to be bad, and he has been there for us ever since.
Say what you want about Alabama. We get a lot of trash talk from other states that think they are better. Let me tell you something about this state. I have NEVER in any of the years I spent in Georgia, Missouri or Pennsylvania, have I EVER seen everyone come together for strangers. The amount of people that poured through Shoal Creek Valley alone was amazing. The very next morning after the storms blew through here, everyone was out and about asking what they could do to help someone. Anyone. These people who came out to help reminded me of how good the world still is, despite all the bad things that happen from time to time. You can no have good without evil. You can not have happy without sad.
My sister and her family of 4, 6 every other weekend when they have my nieces...had to live in an RV on their land for 6 months. I don't know how they did it. I am so thankful that their insurance company settled everything and did right by them. My dad and his wife did not move into their new home until June of this past year. Their insurance company was a nightmare to deal with.
Here are a few pictures of my sister's house going up. Both my sister and my dad built on the same land and foundation that their original houses sat.
This is a picture of my sister's back yard. It pretty much looks similar to this today. The people that lived in that house back there never did anything with it. They didn't have insurance.
Now you know a little bit of why I am a 5 year old in bad weather. While I know you can't control what it does, and all you can do is pray...I still freak out and have anxiety. I have it more for my nephews and my sister, because I know how scared they are. I know that if they are home though, they are hiding out in the storm shelter that they had built into their basement.
These kids are my life and I am so thankful every day that they are still here.
I don't think this state will ever forget April 27, 2011. Every storm since then gets compared to this. Everyone asks "Will this get April 27th bad?" Anyone who has ever experienced tornado damage and loss can relate, no matter "how bad" the storm was where you were. It is scary business. If they are saying it is going to be bad in your area, be alert and aware of what is going on. It can save your life. James Spann says to NEVER rely on outside weather sirens. They don't always go off when they should, and some don't even work. Plus, you may not always hear them.
I will leave you with the lyrics to a song that has forever since been in my mind.
"Praise You In This Storm" - Casting Crowns
I was sure by now
God You would have reached down
And wiped our tears away
Stepped in and saved the day
But once again, I say "Amen", and it's still raining
As the thunder rolls
I barely hear Your whisper through the rain
"I'm with you"
And as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God who gives
And takes away
[Chorus:]
And I'll praise You in this storm
And I will lift my hands
For You are who You are
No matter where I am
And every tear I've cried
You hold in Your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm
I remember when
I stumbled in the wind
You heard my cry to you
And you raised me up again
My strength is almost gone
How can I carry on
If I can't find You
But as the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain
"I'm with you"
And as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God who gives
And takes away
And I'll praise You in this storm
And I will lift my hands
For You are who You are
No matter where I am
And every tear I've cried
You hold in Your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm
I lift my eyes unto the hills
Where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord
The Maker of Heaven and Earth
And I'll praise You in this storm
And I will lift my hands
For You are who You are
No matter where I am
And every tear I've cried
You hold in Your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm
Oh wow. Big huge hugs to you and your family. How devastating.
ReplyDeleteWOW! I had no idea Nadine!!! SO thankful that you, Chris, your dad and your sister and the babies were okay. And so sad that the others didn't make it! Thank you for sharing from your heart! Love you!
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing. Prayers for you and your family. I, too, am terrified of storms... the kind that turn the sky crazy colors and produce tornados and other realyl severe stuff. I've always been totally freaked out and likely always will be, so I can empathize with your fear of the same stuff.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you have a really strong, amazing family. This song could not be any more perfect for this.
April 25-28 of 2011 were horrifying dates to remember! I feel sorry for what happened to your sister's in laws and to all of those who got affected by the tornado breakout. I hope they are fully recovered by now. No one should blame you for freaking out during bad weather. With the traumatic experiences you've witnessed, it's understandable to get paranoid. Perhaps, you should build a safe spot in your home where you could run and be safe in case of disaster. Knowing you have a safe shelter you could depend to might lessen your storm anxiety.
ReplyDeleteEdwina Sybert
AWESOME post. I'm so sorry for your sister's loss. We too got passed over in Hueytown. I'm never been so thankful to be alive at the end of a day. Isn't weird how at the beginning of that day, something just seemed...odd?
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